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Jun 22, 20181 min read
Discipline means to teach
“But where classroom discipline is concerned...a punitive climate isn’t in anyone’s interest..., it strains the fabric of the...
Jun 21, 20181 min read
Relationships are the agents of change
“You can influence & you can make a positive change in a child’s life - & in an adult’s life - all the way through because of the...
Jun 20, 20181 min read
A signal
All behaviour is a form of communication and... “Behind intimidating messages are simply people appealing to us to meet their needs.” -...
Jun 20, 20181 min read
Connected Child Raising
“Behaviour is not perfect, it is communication. Embrace the imperfect and show children they are worth holding close...” - Kelly Bartlett...
Jun 19, 20181 min read
Profoundly destructive
“...being abandoned..., being robbed of the one-on-one relationships that allow you to feel safe & valued and to become humane - these...
Jun 19, 20181 min read
Messages
“Kids everywhere need to feel safe, hopeful, connected and appreciated.” - Michele Borba “Kids everywhere need to feel safe, hopeful,...
Jun 19, 20181 min read
You're not alone
“Take your time to understand. Don’t just do something, be there.” - Marshall B Rosenberg #BreneBrown #Empathy #Development #Connection...
Jun 18, 20181 min read
Do you see me?
“Everyday in a hundred small ways, children ask, ‘Do you see me?’, ‘Do you hear me?’, ‘Do I matter?’ Their behaviour often reflects our...
Jun 18, 20181 min read
Harmed in relationship
“Our children were harmed in relationship and they will experience healing through nurturing relationships.” - Dr Karyn Purvis NVR can...
Jun 17, 20181 min read
Lacking the skills
“...it’s our job to share our calm, not join their chaos.” - LR Knost NVR can help... #DrRossGreene #LRKnost #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV...
Jun 17, 20181 min read
Believe
“Take some time to tell your child you like them today & list the reasons why. Then watch in wonder as they blossom before your eyes....
Jun 16, 20181 min read
Rewards and consequences
“...most challenging kids already want to behave the right way. They don’t need us to continue giving them stickers, depriving them of...
Jun 16, 20181 min read
Hear what they're needing
The objective... “is not to change people & their behaviour in order to get our way; it is to establish relationships based on honesty &...
Jun 14, 20181 min read
Extraordinary
“Being able to feel safe with other people is probably the single most important aspect of mental health; safe connections are...
Jun 13, 20181 min read
Play
“...for children play is serious learning. Play really is the work of childhood.” - Fred Rogers #Play #DevelopmentalTrauma #Development...
Jun 12, 20181 min read
Kindness
“We rise by lifting others.” - Robert Ingersoll #DevelopmentalTrauma #Development #ChildhoodTrauma #Connection #Connectedness...
Jun 11, 20181 min read
Children need your presence
“Children don’t need more things, the best toys a child can have is a parent who gets down on the floor and plays with them.” - Bruce D...
Jun 10, 20181 min read
Hurt people
“Anger is just loud hurt, sadness and unmet needs.” - Suzi Lula #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV#DevelopmentalTrauma #Adoption#FosterCare...
Jun 10, 20181 min read
Play is really the work of childhood
“Play is an incredibly powerful way to learn, grow and heal.” - Bruce D Perry (The Child Trauma Academy) #Play #DevelopmentalTrauma...
Jun 9, 20181 min read
Be there
“The key to fostering a connection in the face of a ‘no’ is always hearing ‘yes’ to something else.” - Marshall B Rosenberg...
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