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Give and take
Your child isn’t giving you a hard time, your child is having a hard time. NVR can help... #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA...
Jun 6, 20181 min read


Punishment
“Kids with a trauma history do not need more punishment, and quite frankly they don’t need more stickers.” - Dr Ross Greene...
Jun 4, 20181 min read


Fear of punishment
Traumatised & attachment-injured children are prone to respond to authority with anger & defiance. Reward & punishment will not work with...
Jun 2, 20181 min read


They are stuck
For traumatised & attachment-injured young people, their experiences have taught them that the adult world cannot be relied upon. Healing...
Jun 1, 20181 min read


Kids everywhere
“Relationships matter... people, not programs, change people.” - Bruce D Perry #DevelopmentalTrauma #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA...
May 31, 20181 min read


Children are not problems
“...NVR begins with the acknowledgement that the child is not the problem - the problem is the problem.” #LRKnost...
May 22, 20181 min read


How we treat our children
“Experience shapes brain structure. Experience is biology. How we treat our children changes who they are and how they will develop.” -...
May 21, 20181 min read


Challenges
Your child isn’t giving you a hard time, your child is having a hard time... NVR can help #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA...
May 20, 20181 min read


There’s Power in Love
What makes children get better from a trauma is connection to other human beings.... those kinds of interactions end up being much more...
May 20, 20181 min read


What they believe
“Children don't need more things. The best toys a child can have is a parent who gets down on the floor and plays with them” - Bruce D...
May 20, 20181 min read


Think beyond ACEs
Get trauma-informed... “Push past the simple question ‘What happened to you?’ and ask ‘When did it happen?’, ‘Who was there to help?’,...
May 16, 20181 min read


“You are not alone”
“Telling a child in fight or flight that ‘you’re not alone’ is the same message we gave the child in infancy, and what is truly...
May 12, 20181 min read


ACEs
NHS Health Scotland produced this short animation to contribute to raising awareness about the impact of childhood adversity. #ACEs...
May 10, 20181 min read


See a Child Differently
The child is not the problem, the problem is the problem. “See a child differently, you see a different child.” - Stuart Shanker (The...
May 8, 20181 min read


The Science of Resilience
The importance of connection and responsive relationships and in building resilience: “There is always an adult, or more than one adult...
May 8, 20181 min read


Behaviour
All behaviour is a form of communication and “At the root of every tantrum and power struggle are unmet needs.” - Marshall B Rosenberg...
May 7, 20181 min read


Relationships Matter
“Relationships matter... people, not programs, change people.” - Bruce D Perry (The Child Trauma Academy) #BruceDPerry...
May 5, 20181 min read


Anger
Your child isn’t giving you a hard time, your child is having a hard time... NVR can help... #SuziLula #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA...
May 3, 20181 min read


Fix the Environment
#AlexanderDenHeijer #TraumaInformed #DevelopmentalTrauma #ACEs #AdverseChildhoodExperiences #RelationalRepair #Connection...
May 3, 20181 min read


Be The One
“It takes a village to raise a child & it doesn’t matter what nationality, what race, we’re all from the human race. If you interact with...
Apr 30, 20181 min read
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