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May 30, 20181 min read
Finding calmness
...the better we can soothe them when they are agitated, or support them when they are low, the better they will be able to “absorb” how...
May 29, 20181 min read
Punishment and Reward
“...rewards and punishments are worthless at best, at destructive at worst, for helping children to develop such values and skills. What...
May 27, 20181 min read
Exactly as we are
Love grows brains... #FredRogers #Development #Relationships #RelationalRepair #Connectedness #ConnectedChildRaising #Connection
May 25, 20181 min read
It's easier
"We’re spending all this money on mental health “but we are spending almost nothing in the first 5 yrs of life, when the brain is the...
May 25, 20181 min read
Unconditional Love
“Love isn’t a state of perfect caring. It’s an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the...
May 23, 20181 min read
Assume the best
The child is not the problem, the problem is the problem. “See a child differently, you see a different child.” - Stuart Shanker...
May 23, 20181 min read
Beauty of the brain
“The most important thing that parents need to understand is that the brain of their child will become exactly what the child was...
May 22, 20181 min read
What they believe is what they will become
“The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice.” - Peggy O’Mara #BrookeHampton #PeggyOMara #Development #Connection...
May 21, 20181 min read
How we treat our children
“Experience shapes brain structure. Experience is biology. How we treat our children changes who they are and how they will develop.” -...
May 20, 20181 min read
Challenges
Your child isn’t giving you a hard time, your child is having a hard time... NVR can help #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA...
May 20, 20181 min read
There’s Power in Love
What makes children get better from a trauma is connection to other human beings.... those kinds of interactions end up being much more...
May 20, 20181 min read
What they believe
“Children don't need more things. The best toys a child can have is a parent who gets down on the floor and plays with them” - Bruce D...
May 19, 20181 min read
Relational Trauma requires Relational Repair
"What happened to you? Who are you? What is your story? What kaleidoscope do you see the world through? We need to see the person behind...
May 16, 20181 min read
Think beyond ACEs
Get trauma-informed... “Push past the simple question ‘What happened to you?’ and ask ‘When did it happen?’, ‘Who was there to help?’,...
May 14, 20181 min read
Supportive, Caring Adults
Relationships with supportive, caring adults as early in life as possible, can prevent or reverse the damaging effects of toxic stress....
May 12, 20181 min read
Online Booking
We’re now taking online bookings for our 1-day Introduction to NVR Workshop for anyone who lives or works with violent & destructive...
May 12, 20181 min read
“You are not alone”
“Telling a child in fight or flight that ‘you’re not alone’ is the same message we gave the child in infancy, and what is truly...
May 11, 20181 min read
Community Approach to Healing
#FiNewood #TraumaInformed #DevelopmentalTrauma #ChildhoodTrauma #Connection #Connectedness #ConnectedChildRaising #NVR #NonviolentResistance
May 10, 20181 min read
ACEs
NHS Health Scotland produced this short animation to contribute to raising awareness about the impact of childhood adversity. #ACEs...
May 10, 20181 min read
Team Effort
“Instead of fighting against your child, try working with your child. Childhood should be a team effort, not a battleground.” - LR Knost...
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